marieb's Podcast

Hi folks! I"m back after a rather long holiday hiatus. I chat a bit about some of the exciting policy decisions that have come out of our new President's policy decisions as well as throw in some random sexgeekiness that has struck my fancy recently.

Global Gag Rule: LIFTED! UNFPA Funding: RESTORED!

I mention NARAL's Blog for Choice Day and the entry I made on that day which I was then happy to see start coming true the next day as mentioned above. :-)

Also, Condoms do help protect against HPV, Tonsils are not friendly to HIV and in Weird Sex News: Blow Up Doll Bandit.

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Intro and Outro music is "We Carry On" by Portishead

Today's podcast is a quickie.

It's a brief blurb about the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. I mention it's origins as a brain child of Dr. Annie Sprinkle that the Sex Workers Outreach Project ran with and turned into an international event.

I discuss my reasons for supporting this day, namely, the human right not to be hurt or killed while working just because someone does not approve of your line of work or thinks you aren't really human.

Please give it some thought and definitely give some thought to the many people who have been hurt or killed simply because they were (or were thought to be) sex workers.

Annie Sprinkle offers Ten Things You Can Do to Participate(from the SWOP Web site)

Absolutely EVERYONE is invited to participate. Here’s how:
1. Organize (or attend) a memorial in your town. Simply choose a place and time to gather. Invite people to bring their stories, writings, thoughts, related news items, poems, lists of victims, performances, and memories. Take turns sharing.

2. Hold (or attend) a candlelight vigil in a public place.

3. Do something at home alone, which has personal meaning, such as a ritual memorial bath, or light a candle.

4. Call a friend and discuss the topic.

5. Send a donation to a group that helps sex workers stay safer. For example, some teach self-defense or host web sites that caution workers about bad Johns.

6. Go to the Sex Worker Outreach Project’s, www.swop-usa.org, read it, and add something to the site. Do let others know about any planned Dec. 17 events by listing them on the SWOP web site.

7. Spread the word about the Day to End Violence Towards Sex Workers and the issues it raises; or blog, email, call, send a press release, or forward this text to others.

8. Go to Washington DC. This December 17, 2008 there will be a National March for Sex Worker Rights. People will converge from all over to take a stand for justice and safety. Info at www.swop-usa.org

9. Organize a panel discussion about violence towards sex workers. Procure a community space and invite speakers like sex workers, police, and families of victims.

10. Create your own way to participate.

Intro and Outro music is Melody Gardot-Wicked Ride

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• International Human Rights Day, the anniversary of the signing of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights Day without a Gay
• Proposition 8 (personal disclosure)
• Sexism on Obama's staff? And sorry folks I got the blog wrong on this one in the podcast, it was actually Shakespeare Sister not Feministing, although they did give me the link to the actual post.
• Control of Women through threats of violation/violence (more personal disclosure)
• One more example of society and the media trying to control women: Amanda Palmer's Belly is Too Fat???
• The resulting Rebellyon takes off right here

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Yes, I know it's been a while. For the sake of making sure you all don't forget about me, I am recording a nice, neurotic brain dump for your listening pleasure. Please don't hurt me! Well OK, you can hurt me but we have to negotiate the terms first. *wink*

The topics, in no particular order:

• The Game, found thanks to Benchilada
• Knock out boobs in Uganda
• My Amazon Wishlist and their cool new Universal Wishlist Button
• YAY FOR PRESIDENT ELECT OBAMA!!!!!!!!
• The Eye-Fi: a Wi-Fi SD Card for your camera!
• Porn Hub: Because you can never have too much free pr0n
• Find me on Flickr
• Discussions about Polyamory and other non-traditional relationship configurations

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Intro and Outro music is Disturbia by Rihanna

So in an attempt to have some red meat for my podcast *nudge nudge* I googled "sex and politics" and here is what I found:

• Sexy Politics: Learn more about the issues and see nearly nakie people!
• Votergasm: Have sex for the cause!

I also rant about Sarah Palin, who has a very special place in hell waiting for her.

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Today I read a sexy, political flash fic piece done by erotica author and fellow podcaster and friend Nobilis.

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• More about the challenge
• Sex related reasons to vote including this Palin related issue about rape victims paying for their rape kits
• Corrections from yesterday's podcast regarding the case about sodomy in Texas and sextoys in Texas
• ZOMG! The Debate!
• VOTE VOTE VOTE!!!!
• *nudge nudge wink wink* at Nobilis about his political erotic short

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New disclaimer: If you're not 18, you might want to go visit Scarleteen.com since this podcast can be a bit...adult. ;)

I mention that I am currently working on getting Crista to co-host a few podcasts with me. *nudge nudge* We shall see how that goes.

I mention the insanity that is currently the US economy. Check here, here and here for more info.

I mention the current fight over a draft of an proposed HHS rule that clinics, hospitals etc may not refuse to hire someone who believes that contraception is abortion and that that person may refuse to provide services if it is against their beliefs.

I also mention Jose B's newest podcast on Babalu Bistro: Desi Arnaz vs. Elvis

And the rest is a bit of babble. It's a shorty but then, one can only record one's own voice for so long without going a bit crazy!

Intro and outro music is Filthy Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters. Enjoy!

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• Why I've been gone so long and some changes I am planning to make
• The Presidential campaign (OBAMA 2008!)
• Paris Hilton Spanking McCain
• HIV Incidence is worse than the CDC thought
• 2008 Olympics
• Men pretending to be women in the Olympics? (I saw this first in VB's blog)
• Where to find me: My Blog, Twitter , email postmodern.sexgeek@gmail.com

• Zombie Pinups: http://www.zombiepinups.com/
• The Devil's Tramping Ground: http://darkartsmedia.com/DevilsTrampingGround.com.html
• The zombie Survival Test: http://www.nerdtests.com/mq/take.php?id=6516
• The Zombie Survival and Defense Wiki: http://www.zombiesurvivalwiki.com/?t=anon
• The Zombie Survical Guide by Max Brooks: http://www.randomhouse.com/crown/zombiesurvivalguide/

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1. The brilliance of Bush appointing an anti-contraception lackey to the position that manages the funds for the nation's family planning programs
2. To protest this appointment go here.
3. Talk about the lovely Violet Blue's new DRM free audio book How to Kiss

1. The only new and exciting thing going on in my life right now: puppies
2. Many thanks to Ash B., my new producer and taskmaster who is kicking my ass and making me produce
3. An inter view with Laura Agustin who wrote Sex at the Margins: Migration, Labor Market and the Rescue Industry. (Inter view done by Susie Bright and posted on Alternet).
4. Sex workers who are planning a brothel in Vancouver during the 2010 Olympics

The first topic I discuss is the trend towards the Medicalization of Sex i.e. everything is a disease and needs a drug rather than better communication and more sexual imagination. Go to this website and this article for a more reading on the subject.

The next topic I discuss is ENDA: The Employment Non Discrimination Act. In order to get it passed through congress, proponents have decided that removing protection for trans gendered folks is necessary. WTF?

No music today but if i find good stuff, I will be bringing it to ya on my show.

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1. What do women really want when it comes to sex? Hearts and Flowers? Down and dirty? All of the above?
2. And of course, once again, communication is muy importante when it comes to sex
3. Automatic tooth brush or vibrator waiting to happen?
4. Proctor & Gamble says : "WE ARE NOT SEX OBJECTS!"
5. Mom went in for a biopsy on a lump in her breast, which fortunately turned out to be benign!
6. A sexgeek PSA about the importance of cancer screening. For more info please visit the American Cancer Society website.

• Pretty When You Cry by Vast
• Drive by Melissa Ferrick

Coffee is my fuel! Without it I would be a a Romero Zombie unless I've used my asthma inhaler in which case I'm a 28 Days Later zombie.

An article I found via mySage Feed about how Women's rights are the key to the AIDS Crisis in Africa

Mention some HIV Stats for the US from the Kaiser Family Foundation

And mention the CDC's updated recommendations on HIV Testing

On a much lighter note...

I tell you that May is National Masturbation month!!!

So engage in the safest sex there is (sex with yourself) and cum for a good cause.

And to help you along with that project, I read another of my own erotica shorts : Rough Trade

Intro and Outro music is Ici La Femme XXX Mix by Louise Vertigo from Wakka Chikka Wakka Chikka: Porn Music for the Masses Volume 1 on on Archive.org.

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• Pizzababe and Bob calling her out for not doing a podcast
• Work related stress
• Job searches
• NYT article about AIDS treatment medications
• Kaiser Family Foundation and Global AIDS Epidemic
• Nobilis' podcast
• Lousy Time Management
• Too many books, so little time
• Why she loves her job (Pardon the tears)
• Her SL business: The PMG Cafe
• Her most embarrassing sex moment

Fall Out Boy with Where is your boy?

My interview with Toronto Radio Show Sex City Radio

NSFW: Censorship? Or courtesy?

Sex News!

Female gamers get plenty of sex!

Rachel Kann with Fight me, a hybrid song/spoken word/poetry creation. Hot hot hot!

And finally...

Susie's tomato sauce recipe and Nigella's chocohotpots because food and sex are normal parts of being human.

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Today I talk about:

• Inspiration and the swift kick in my ass that I needed that was delivered courtesy of Sami Blackmire.
• My thoughts on being in the Pink Ghetto, as described by Melissa Gira on Sexerati.
• My new SL Business, the PMG Cafe, has it's grand opening tomorrow.
• Pizzababe Goes Global Orgasm Day! Call her and leave her a naughty, inspirational message.

Today's music provided by:

• Come Here Boy by Imogen Heap
• Good Morning Bubblegum by The Harvey Girls

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Merry Christmas from
your Postmodern Sexgeek

Find more pics of these lovely ladies at the Hegre Christmas Gallery Site

And for an audio greeting from me, click HERE!

• Microbicides for HIV Prevention
• The state of HIV/AIDS in the US and abroad with info from the Kaiser Family Foundation (The documents I got my stats from are here and here)
• The importance of HIV Testing

Listener Comments are go!

I pimp out the book I just read: On the Banks of Lethe by James L. Grant of Two Lumps and Flem Comics

I discuss International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers (December 17th)
I also mention the most recent cases of violence in Britain and Atlantic City

I also read the conclusion the the erotic story I began in the last cast...Enjoy! Music in today's show was:

• Beyond the Realms of Reason By Belladonna
• I Don't Believe in Love by Alicia Marie
• Love Me Leave Me by BitStream Dream

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Audacia Ray's new porn movie The Bi Apple and the nice preview that is found here

Britney Spears Upskirt Shot

Consumating.com silliness! Here's my profile page.

And then there's the My Space page.

And then...a little surprise... A Postmodern Sexgeek erotica reading

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Today's cast is a protest against Anti-Porn week!

Crista and I discuss our issues with current arguments against porn, claims that porn causes destruction of marriages and communities and the societal problems that are the true causes of the victimization of women.

Some of the sites and people we mention here are:

• Sex Workers' Outreach Program
• St James Infirmary
• Audacia Ray
• Melissa Gira

The sites we mention are:

• Cuke porn video on Fleshbot.com
• Cindy Margolis naked at last!
• Sapphic Erotica
• The Hun
• Veg Porn
• Furry Girl
• Crista's first pictorial site: That Bird's Nest
• No Fauxxx
• Erotica Reader and Writer's association
• Erotiterrorist

In sex toys we have the Laya Spot!

In the category of gratuitous pimping of friends' sites we mention Two Lumps and Flem Comics, the brain children of Mel Hynes and James Grant.

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• Zombie Pinups
• Unscathed Corpse

• Consecrated Virgins
• Anti-Pornography Week

• Don't think I Don't Miss You by X Tokyo River God from the Calling All Fiends Compilation found on Archive.org
• Zombie Girl by The Quintessentials from the Podsafe Music Network

• Clitoral vs. Vaginal Orgasm with info from The-Clitoris.com

• SexTutor.com for all your sex tutoring needs

• Martin Perreault
• Amy Rivera

• Guns yes! Dildos no!

Like the new intro music? That music is courtesy of Wakka Chikka Wakka Chikka: Porn Music for the Masses Volume 1 on on Archive.org.

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• Pickled Penises (Peni?)
• Stand on my soapbox and curse the Brits

1. Black Coffee by Stefanie Harger
2. I Need to Know by Cafebar 401

• I mention the site I talked about in the masturbation podcast: Homemade Sex Toys
• Thanks to Billy Hicks from Second Life for sending me those comments. I love it when you all share with me!
• I also share comments from Rob, also of Second Life, about his first cybersex experience.
• I give some love to the site Yes But No But Yes for it's hilarious gonzo Journalism piece, The Best Little Whorehouses in Second Life .

• A Planned Parenthood Golden Gate commercial that is raising a ruckus in the conservative networld
• A sad story about an 11 years old who performed oral sex on 20 boys/men
• Talk about why I believe comprehensive sexuality education is so important
• And why parents MUST talk to their kids about sex

• Deadbeat by The Dials
• Let the Horn Blow by Delinquent Habits
• Your Love is Everything by Don't Harass Betty

• Homemade Sextoys
• My Masturbation
• Jackin World
• Betty Dodson

• Christians are addicted to pr0n!
• XXX being used to sell French clothes! w00t! ( you can find the goods here)

• Candy Coated Sugar Sex by Kaila
• L�Edge by Aqualash
• Naked by Naked?
• Touch by Ginny Clee

• Waking Vixen by Audacia Ray, another sexgeek (Yay!)
• The Guide To Deep Throating Page
• Isabella Valentine-audio hypnotist and phone sex operator
• Jane's Guide: A clearing house to many things sexy on the intarwebs
• My first true sexgeek Crush Violet blue and her latest erotica short: Recent Favorite

• Naked Cow Party Dancing in the UK
• Interactive Sextoys in Second Life?

1. Without You by Beat Assassins
2. Fame featuring El Da Sensei by Fair One
3. A Thousand Kisses by Ella Blame

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• Summer in Dallas...again. It's frelling HOT!
• Second Life sex blog, Desire in the Digital Age
• Melissa Gira and her coverage of the Sex Worker's Rights Conference in Vegas
• My feelings on Sex Worker's and Human Rights

• Second Life Insanity
• My favorite Club In World: Junkyard Blues
• Pizza Babe and Bob of the Pizzababe Goes Global Podcast have adopted me as a member of their Playas Family
• And finally I discuss the Art of the Mindfuck! Send me your thoughts.

1. Let Me Stir In Your Pot--Carey Bell
2. Breakin' Out--Shemekia Copeland
3. Don't You Tell Me---Saffire

• A couple of listener emailed questions about "Am I normal?"
• The most interesting sex toy I've come across yet: The Video Voyeur which can be found here
• Why nice guys don't have to finish last
• Fill you in on some sex news regarding Gardasil, the new vaccine against HPV and the unlucky fate of NYCs subway foot fetishist

At last!  The fabled sextoy podcast is reality!  Download it now to hear 3 girls dishing about toys while podcasting under the influence, random buzzing and Marie B. indulging in a little auto-bondage, among other naughty things.

The Toys we discuss in this podcast are:
The Futurotic Cuddly Companion
Pearl Butterfly
Eager Beaver
The Reach Out and Touch Me Vibe
Slimline clitoral stimulators
I Rub My Duckie Bondage Duckie
Don Juan Scepter (or a reasonable example of what Crista has)
Fukuoku
USB Powered Multi-Function Vibrator
Slim Jim Anal Probe
Impulse Bulbous Vibe
IRabbit
Rope ( do I really need to post a picture?)

We of course cover the care and cleaning of sex toys, however, in case we didn't cover everything, here are the specifics:

Non-Porous

• Non-porous toys-silicone, glass, hard plastic and stone) have no pores and therefore when cleaned, are really clean. Use anti-bac soap or a bleach or alcohol solution (1:10 bleach/alcohol to water) or boil them or run them through the top shelf of your dishwasher
• Be aware that some companies mislabel toys as silicone when they are really latex.
• Silicone (medical grade) is opaque, never see through.
• The surface will be without pores, and will have a silky-smooth surface. They can range from very firm to floppy, and they warm to body temperature and retain heat for a long time.
• Silicone toys can be boiled for up to five minutes or put in the top rack of the dishwasher for complete sterilization, which is especially good for anal toys. Some silicone toys will react badly to silicone lubricants, so it's best to use water-based lubes with your silicone toys.

• Most toys are made from latex and are called jelly rubber or some name close to that. They are porous and are more likely to harbor bacteria
• Jelly toys are usually clear, come in all sorts of fun colors (some are even sparkly!) or are made to look more like real skin (cyberskin)
• A lot of these toys contain all sorts of weird mystery chemicals and no one really has any idea what these chemicals might do to the body which is another reason why itâ??s a good idea to use condoms on these toys
• Iâ??ve also read that the cyberskin toys will melt into chemical goo if they come into contact with other jelly toys! I have no idea how true this is but you might consider storing these separately if you have both
• And of course thereâ??s the fact that many people are allergic to latex which can definitely put a damper on oneâ??s play
• Also, if youâ??ve been using a jelly toy and suddenly start having infections or irritation itâ??s either time to throw it away or start using a condom with it.
• Make sure to always wash these toys with anti-bac soap and if it gets used for anal play then make it exclusively an anal toy
• Your best bet is to treat these toys as disposable. If they start to look dull or you can see tears or breaks in the surface then throw them out.

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Edit:  Please ignore the fact that the MP3 is mislabeled as #7.  You did not miss a show but I'm apparently missing my brain.

Yes, dear listeners, it'a another quickie show. I just want to be sure that you don't forget about me.

If my voice sounds a little odd today, it's because I had a freak asthma attack last night and I'm still dealing with the consequences.

Today I give a little preview of the upcoming sex toy show and I solicit info from my male listeners about their opinions on sextoys and buying toys for themselves.

I mention a couple of listener emails I received and answer the questions: " How do you feel about the lack of male frontal nudity? Do you feel cheated or is it true that women don't want to see penises? "

I also mention that I desperately need Podcast Alley Votes! VOTE FOR ME! PLEASE!!!!!

I mention the Podcasting group I recently found in my area as well as one of the podcasts done by local folks:  Nowhere in Mulberry

I also mention my plan to start featuring a Geek Bachelor of the Month. If you'd like to participate, email me.

I also share two of my favorite sex related news stories: Vaginal Grenade Smuggling and Downloadable, DVD burnable porn movies

And I once again beg for more feedback. Come on postmodern geeks, show this girl some love:

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I also mention some ideas for other shows such as:

• Food and Sex
• Dirty Talk
• Mind Fucking
• Porn
• Joint podcast about sexy non-porn movies

What do you think? Do any of these sound interesting? Please let me know.

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Today I talk about the assault on women's reproductive rights and the assault on such basic healthcare services as family planning.

The places where I got my information are:

Abortion Fact sheets
Major Supreme Court Rulings regarding Reproductive Health
Assault on Birth Control and Family Planning
Condom Effectiveness Facts

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I apologize for having taken so long to post this podcast. Please forgive me?

Major points I touch on in this cast

• Everyone has fantasies
• Fantasy can occur whenever and wherever
• We can learn a lot about ourselves and our partners from fantasy
• This is especially true when the fantasies are real button pushers such as those involving things like BDSM, degradation, gender or even fear.
• If you have fantasies that you consider "bad" or "wrong" then you can start to wonder if something is wrong with you or if you're a bad person. You definitely aren't. We all have fantasies that may seem taboo or scary. It's common since that which seems "forbidden" can often seem the most intriguing. This is human nature and it's not extraordinary
• Whatever your fantasy may be, if you wish to try it out, you will need to talk to your partner about it
• Introducing a fantasy to your partner can seem daunting
• Especially if you don't normally discuss sex
• It can be difficult for you if your partner brings up the subject as well
• Doubts about one's abilities as a lover can occur
• When talking about sexual fantasies, we always need to keep an open mind
• We also need to be mindful of our partner's reaction and check in with them during these kinds of discussions. They may feel the need for reassurance
• Make sure to consider when and where would be the right time to bring up the subject

Most popular sexual fantasies according to Internet research

1. Being submissive/surrendering control
2. Being dominant/in control
3. Strap on sex
4. Two partners at a time
5. Sex work
6. Sex with someone of the same gender/opposite gender
7. Sex with strangers
8. Group sex
9. Exhibitionism/sex in a public place
10. Past experiences
11. Sex with "inappropriate" partners

In the advice column Is it ok to use a vacuum pump on my girlfriend's genitals? Can we have intercourse afterwards?

The sites and/or people I referenced for answers are:
Albany Power Exchange
Mistress Persephone of Sickchixxx.com

No music today since the cast is almost 1 hour long! I had a lot to say since I haven't done a cast in so long!

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Music for today's podcast is Little Black Dress by Cush.

Today I did a mini-rant about 2257. The following are links for more info about this:
Electronic Frontier Foundation's Page
The Free Speech Coalition's page
Tribe's Pre-emptive strike

The shows that I promo'd were:
Kinky Sex Radio
Whorecast
I Just Work Here

And instead of another song, I give you a special treat: "I Put a Spell on You", an erotic short written by me.

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The main topic of today's show was World AIDS Day and HIV prevention. Check out the following sites for more info:

http://worldaidsday.nih.gov/worldaidsday/december1.htm
http://www.thebody.com/worldAIDSday.html

Music from todays podcast was "Waking Up The Neighborhood" by Planet of Women and Push by Brother Love.

And most importantly, my intro and end music was "Naked Under Leather" by Rubber Band Banjo. With a song name like that, is it any wonder why I like it so much?

Go check out The Kaiser Family Foundation for all things public health related.

Podcasts you must check out!
The Daily Source Code by Adam Curry
Open Source Sex by Violet Blue
Whorecast by Melissa Gira
Whispered Pearls at Creative Filth
And most importantly...The Podsafe Music Network

Don't let me forget Good Vibrations either! For all your sex toy needs.

Thank you for listening and thank you for any creative criticism you can send my way. And if you notice any links I forgot to put up, please let me know.